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Issues of weight preoccupation such as food, dieting and health
are often discussed openly and with great interest and enthusiasm
in many informal social situations.
Beyond Dieting considered these groups successful in terms of improving
self esteem, helping members make peace with their relationship
with food and increasing their knowledge and understanding of weight
related issues
Despite the fact that they were not losing weight, most expressed
a desire to continue the group process. They wanted to continue
talking about these issues but no longer wanted to focus on food,
dieting or weighing themselves..
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The dynamic forces that were essential parts of the Beyond Dieting
Group® included:
- Mutual Support: Support among others who confront similar issues
with regard to weight preoccupation was an essential part of the
group process. The group leader and members provided support which
helped reduce anxiety and encouraged participation and willingness
to hear new ideas.
- Cohesiveness: Mutual acceptance lent itself to group commitment
and enjoyment. When mutual support, acceptance and empathy were
provided, cohesiveness and a sense of belonging were achieved.
- Quality of Relationships: The relationships among the members
provided support and caring in an environment of trust and intimacy.
- Universalization: It was important and reassuring for others
to learn that they were not the only ones struggling with weight
related issues. Although many weight preoccupation issues are
discussed in informal social situations, the depth of isolation,
loneliness or frustration was usually not shared as readily among
friends or acquaintances particularly when one is obese.
- Instilling hope: Repeat dieters often feel hopeless and isolated.
Through the group process, members developed hope and optimism
for the future.
- Altruism: Helping others and in turn helping themselves, helped
members to feel good about themselves and increased self esteem.
- Acquisition of knowledge and skills: Educating group members
about what is KNOWN about dieting and weight preoccupation as
opposed to what is commonly BELIEVED was an essential part of
the group's goals. Techniques such as irrational eating were discussed
and utilized by some members as a method of learning how to disempower
food.
- Catharsis: Expression of feelings and disclosure of experiences
served to reduce anxiety and aided in the achievement of goals
in conjunction with knowledge that was gained.
- Corrective emotional experiences: It was important for members
to separate the guilt and self-loathing that often resulted from
weight preoccupation. Members needed to explore and sometimes
express strong emotions in resolving these issues.
- Reality testing: The groups provided multiple perspectives.
The group provided feedback for sharing and comparing perceptions,
feelings and facts. Through sharing thoughts and feelings, it
was reassuring to find that others may have felt the same way
or had similar experiences.
The specific goals of Beyond Dieting® were:
- To educate: It was very important for the group to have an educational
component. Most people receive information about dieting and weight
preoccupation through a variety of sources such as popular books,
magazines, television, weight loss agencies and the medical community.
People will often informally discuss dieting and weight loss information
that is learned through various sources. Much of this information
comes from sources that are recommending or selling their own
weight loss techniques and is based on the belief that diets are
effective in dealing with both weight issues and weight preoccupation
and on marketing principles. Therefore there are usually biases
inherent in most information received. I believed that most people
were poorly informed and know little concrete data or research
about dieting and weight preoccupation. It was important that
Beyond Dieting provide accurate information for discussion and
therefore increase the awareness and knowledge of members. Presentations
of current beliefs and controversies as found in both the popular
press and scientific journals were included for discussion in
most weekly sessions.
- To increase self esteem: Individuals who struggle with weight
related issues often have low self esteem (Campbell, 1977; Overdahl,
1987). It was hoped that self esteem would be enhanced as awareness
about body image and self esteem issues were explored in a supportive
environment.
- To explore one's relationship with food: Through the process
of repeated dieting and weight preoccupation, it was hypothesized
that most members would have a dysfunctional relationship with
food. It was important for the group to look at the meaning that
they had given food and explore the power that food had developed
for them. It was important to learn that there was more to eating
than hunger. Members' current eating styles may have reflected
their relationship with food and were to be discussed and evaluated
in a non-judgmental setting. It was hoped that through the group
process and experience, normalized eating would be discussed and
encouraged.
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